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Arwa bint Kurayz (رضي الله عنها)


بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

 اَلْحَمْدُ للّٰهِ رَبِّ العَالَمِيْنَ وَالصَّلاَةُ وَالسَّلَامُ عَلىَ اَشْرَفِ اْللأَنْبِيَاءِ وَالْمُرْسَلِيْنَ سَيِّدِناَ وَمَوْلٰنَا مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى اٰلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ اَجْمَعِيْنَ، اَمَّا بَعْدُ. 


There are reports that indicate that Arwa was well known for her generosity and hospitability: Two qualities that were shown in great measure by Uthman throughout the 23 years of his companionship with the Prophet and subsequently. Arwa’s own hospitality has been authentically recorded. Prior to Islam, an Arab poet named Af’al ibn Qays visited Makkah and stayed in her house. When he left, he recorded his gratitude in a few lines of poetry in which he praises her hospitality in clear terms that also tell of her honourable conduct and manners. However, lets us delve deeper of sohabiyah of Prophet SAW.

Arwa bint Kurayz (رضي الله عنها) was a noble female companion (Sahabiyah) and the mother of Uthman ibn Affan (رضي الله عنه), the third Rightly Guided Caliph of Islam.

Regarding the specific request for Hadiths narrated by her, historical records indicate that Arwa bint Kurayz did not narrate any Hadiths recorded in the major canonical books of Islamic tradition (Kutub al-Sittah). The assumption that she was a narrator typically stems from a historical conflation with other early figures named Arwa or the famous male scholar Urwah.

Biography and Key Contributions of Arwa bint Kurayz

• Lineage & Noble Status: She was the daughter of Kurayz ibn Rabi'ah and Umm Hakim bint Abd al-Muttalib. Since her mother (known as al-Bayda) was the twin sister of Abdullah (the Prophet's father), Arwa was a first cousin of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ).

• Conversion and Hijrah: Her son Uthman was one of the earliest converts to Islam. While her second husband, Uqbah ibn Abu Mu'ayt, was a fierce enemy of Islam, Arwa eventually embraced Islam and made the migration (Hijrah) to Medina. There, she formally pledged her allegiance (Bay'ah) to the Prophet (ﷺ).

• Character & Demise: Known for her generosity and honorable conduct, she spent the latter years of her life in Medina under the care of Uthman. She lived to the advanced age of 90 and passed away during Uthman's caliphate, with her son personally performing her burial rites.

Clearing Historical Ambiguities: The Three "Arwa" Namesakes;

The confusion regarding her status as a narrator or the pronoun shifts ("he narrated") comes from conflating her with the following historical figures:


Name Of Figure:

Arwa bint Aws
(Female)

Identity & Era:

A woman from early Medina.

Role in Hadith/History:

Famous for a legal dispute recorded in Sahih Muslim and Riyad as-Salihin

Key Distinction from Arwa binti Kurays:

She falsely accused the companion Sa'id bin Zayd of stealing her land. Sa'id invoked a Hadith about wrongful land seizure, and she later lost her sight and fell into her own well. She did not narrate the Hadith; she was the subject of the incident.


Name Of Figure:

Arwa bint al-Harith
(Female)

Identity & Era:

Another first cousin of the Prophet (ﷺ).

Role in Hadith/History:

Known for her immense eloquence, poetry, and sharp defenses of Islamic justice.

Key Distinction from Arwa binti Kurays:

She is sometimes cited in historical transmissions and chains regarding the Prophet's family, but she is distinct from Uthman's mother.


Name Of Figure:

Urwah bin al-Zubayr
(Male)

Identity & Era:

A premier male jurist and Tabi'i (successor).

Role in Hadith/History:

One of the most prolific narrators of Hadith in Islamic history.

Key Distinction from Arwa binti Kurays:

As the son of Asma bint Abi Bakr and nephew of Aisha (رضي الله عنها), he transmitted the bulk of legal rulings from Aisha. The pronoun "he" and requests for "exact Arabic texts narrated" belong to his legacy, not Arwa bint Kurayz.

Arwa’s marriage to Kurayz did not last long. She then married Uqbah ibn Abu Mu’ayt, one of hardest opponents of Islam and the Prophet.

It is well known that Uthman was one of the very early Muslims. He spoke to his mother about Islam and she appreciated its message and what it meant. Yet she was living with her husband, Uqbah, who did his utmost to abuse the Prophet. Whether she became a Muslim at the time is not clear, but what is certain is that when Uqbah criticized Uthman for accepting Islam, she defended him and declared that she herself would support Muhammad.qbah’s opposition to Islam was unrelenting. 

He would do everything to undermine it and to abuse the Prophet. He continued to do so until he was taken prisoner by the Muslims in the Battle of Badr. He was one of two prisoners who were executed for their unwavering hostility. The other was al-Nadr ibn al-Harith who used to describe the Qur’an as ‘fables of the ancients’. Yet Uqbah’s hostility did not prevent Islam from establishing roots within his own household. His daughter, Umm Kulthum, became a Muslim and pledged herself as a Muslim to the Prophet before his immigration to Madinah. Umm Kulthum, however, was unable to leave Makkah with the Muslims. She continued to live there, but her thoughts were always with the Muslims. She yearned for the day when she could join them. This was not to happen until six years later, when she managed to creep out of Makkah and travel to Madinah. She was welcomed there by the Prophet and by her half brother, Uthman.

Arwa herself was then able to do like her daughter, and she traveled to Madinah and pledged her loyalty to the Prophet as a Muslim. It was the most delightful day for Uthman to welcome his mother in Madinah. She lived with her son until her death during his own reign. Ibn Hajar, the great Hadith scholar, mentions that she was 90 when she died. Ibn Saad mentions a report by one of those who attended her funeral. He says that after her burial, people came to the mosque and prayed. Uthman was praying alone. The reporter says that he was praying close to him, and he heard Uthman appealing to God to grant mercy and forgiveness to his mother.


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references:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arwa_bint_Kurayz
https://www.arabnews.com/archive/391110
  • Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani. Lisan Al-Mizan: Uthman bin al-Affan.
  • ↑ Al-Maqdisi, Abd al-Ghani (2004). Short Biography of the Prophet & His Ten Companions. Darussalam. p. 73.
  • Jump up to: ibn Sa'd, Muhammad (1995). Kitab at-Tabaqat al-Kabir [The Book of the Major Classes]. Vol. VIII The Women of Madina. Translated by Bewley, Aisha.  Ta-Ha Publishers. ISBN 978-1-897940-24-2.
  • https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Bint_Kurayz-1